Dating a bad girl can be fun in the initial stages, but that feeling fades away soon, leaving an aching heart and a trampled ego in its wake. Women are always trying to understand the reasons a guy would choose a bad girl. In the end, they usually discover they wanted a good girl all along.
Whether you consider yourself good or bad, these reasons might help you understand guys just a little better.
Bad seems hotter
One of the biggest reasons why guys choose bad girls is sex appeal. Honestly, which is hotter—the quiet good girl in the background in jeans and a tee or the bad girl in the ripped jeans, tight tank, and leather jacket flirting with all the guys? Guys think bad means hot. Sometimes it’s hard for them to look past it. It doesn’t mean you’re not attractive, but bad girls tend to stand out.
They’re more outgoing
The one thing good girls always envy about bad girls is that they don’t seem to care what everyone thinks. While that’s not usually true, it does help them seem more confident and outgoing than most good girls. Guys love confidence. They also love extroverts. Don’t be afraid to show how confident and outgoing you are.
No thoughts of the future
While you might look for a guy based on how mature he is, most guys take the opposite approach. They aren’t thinking about the future. All they see is here and now. A good girl might be a great wife and mother, but a bad girl comes off as someone who has fun. Guys are often drawn to women who don’t seem like the future matters to them. It takes the pressure off and just lets them have fun.
It’s a challenge
Guys love challenges. Just look at how they act around their friends, and you’ll instantly see how competitive they are. Bad girls offer a fun, unique challenge. They play hard to get it and make guys work for it. What guys don’t understand is that good girls are usually harder to get. Still, bad girls seem like a bigger challenge, so they’re instantly more appealing.
They are rebels
Guys love rebellious girls. This is especially true during the teen and college years. What’s more exciting than a girl who shuns authority, skips classes, sneaks out, and parties when they’re not supposed to? The answer, of course, is a good girl, but guys don’t see it that way. They like the rebellious spirit, even if it’s not what’s best for them. Give the guy some time to mature, and he’ll soon see that good is just as sexy.
Source: Ghana/MaxTV/MaxFM/max.com.gh/Belinda Quansah
