Secrets have been a part of human life since ancient times. People have always had things they wanted to keep to themselves, whether it was a hidden treasure or a secret love affair.
We all have secrets that we keep to ourselves, things that we would never dream of sharing with anyone else.
But have you ever wondered why some secrets are meant to stay hidden? The truth is, there are some things that should never be revealed, no matter how close you are to someone.
Some truth can be used against you and it’s prudent to keep it even from your partner or spouse to make your relationship flourish.
These three secrets when shared with partners can ruin your love life some day.
1. Body Count
It’s key to keep your body count to yourself most especially if you’re a woman. Men are natural predators but hate it when women have more than two body counts. They don’t take it likely if other men have devoured their partner. In order to maintain your relationship, keep your body count hidden. Otherwise, he will equally sleep with you and dispose of you immediately.
2. Details Of How Your former Relationship Ended
Don’t give a detailed account of the reason your former relationship hit the rocks. This is just like an arrest that “any words you say will be used against you in the Court Of Law.” Giving details is setting a psychological tone for your partner to either repeat the same act or to continuously refer you to the reason your former partner left you. Your details will be an armor that will lead to your destruction in the current relationship.
3. Family Secret
Keep your family secret to yourself. I know sometimes you will be carried away to be too open to your partner. However, there are things to say, definitely not your family secret. A family secret when it comes to light can be a trap that can lead to a break up or divorce so never dare to disclose secrets pertaining to your family.
The above secrets when you keep, will spare you from unnecessary drama with your partner.
